"Well, you're still an executive"

A couple of months ago I met a woman at a networking event - someone I'd connected with on LinkedIn but never met in person.

She asked what I did.

I said I was coming off a sabbatical. My kids call it my 'Gap Year', which I'd started to find quite funny. I made a little joke about technically not being an executive at the moment.

She looked at me and said: "Well, you're still an executive" and then we moved on to small talk.

I've been thinking about those five words ever since.

She didn't make a big thing of it. Just a statement of fact, delivered matter-of-factly, from someone who had no reason to be anything other than honest.

But she was right. I'd spent months using my kids' affectionate framing for a period that was actually a deliberate pause, to recover, recalibrate and work out what came next. Somewhere in there I'd started to believe the lighter version of the story.

That one comment quietly triggered something in my brain.

In the weeks since, I've rebuilt my entire professional presence - rewritten and rebuilt my website, updated my profiles, set up systems that make me more effective, and started applying selectively for some senior roles that would really mean something to me.

One comment. Five words.

I don't know if she remembers saying it. I doubt it meant much to her.

It meant quite a lot to me though. ❤️ 

This article was first published on LinkedIn